FERGUSON, Mo. — The recent tragedy in Ferguson, Missouri, where a mother and her four young children lost their lives in a devastating fire, has left the community reeling.
As investigators determined it to be a murder-suicide, the shock and grief reverberated throughout St. Louis.
Richelle Shorter, a licensed professional counselor, like many others, expressed profound sorrow and empathy for the unimaginable pain experienced by the family.
"It's really heartbreaking to read and really connect with that space of hurt, pain, and disappointment," Shorter shared.
In the aftermath of such a heartbreaking event, mental health professionals are urging individuals to recognize the importance of seeking support when struggling with overwhelming emotions.
Shorter emphasized that support is available, highlighting the national crisis hotline number, 988, as an immediate resource for those in distress.
Additionally, she pointed out local avenues such as churches, family, and counseling services for ongoing support.
"I think that we are in a space where we don't seek support when we need it. When things get heavy, when things are lonely," Shorter added.
Acknowledging the toll such incidents take on first responders, Edgar "Ed" Hatcher, a Fire Chaplain and Licensed Professional Counselor, shed light on the mental battles faced by firefighters.
"Any event in which they are unable to save a life or any event that involves children carries extra stress," Hatcher said.
However, he also stressed the importance of firefighters seeking support through avenues like the Critical Incident Stress team, which provides specialized care and understands the unique challenges of their profession.
Central to the healing process, Shorter emphasized, is staying connected.
She noted that whether it is reaching out to a trusted friend, colleague, or mental health professional, maintaining connections allows individuals to gauge their well-being and provides opportunities for others to offer support.
"If I am seeing you and I'm connected with you, then I can see and gauge where you are, and it gives me an opportunity to show up for you," she said.
A spokesperson for the City of Ferguson said there would be another critical incident stress debriefing held next week.